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110 messages about
the emotional bonds to New Zealand when living overseas; coming home and
finding optimism and energy; coming home and finding insularity and
violence; the right to vote in New Zealand when living overseas;
Brazil’s little place of Aotearoa; recognizing Nancy Wake; and more.
Received January-May 2005.
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MANAGEMENT AND MEDIA TRAINER, WELS, AUSTRIA ANYONE OUT THERE SMARTING ABOUT US EXPATS/DIASPORA
BEING DENIED A VOTE IN ENZED!! Dear Kiwis, This year it will be 22 years
away and 20 years in Austria for me. If there is anything I
seriously miss it's this: NOT BEING ABLE TO VOTE - ANYWHERE!! Been too
long away from Enzed and not being able to have double citizenship here.
The last time I crossed a voting form was in 1984 - an absentee vote from
Canada. The global village with its global communications means we can
keep ourselves informed. (Hands up who goes to the Herald website
daily). Denying us the vote is ON THE NOSE big time. It feels like a
week-old railways pie. It should be stopped. There needs to be a
grassroots movement to give us diaspora (all 1 million of us) our
democratic rights back. Means something to us expats living close to
where democracy does not exist. Anyone out there shares my view. Let’s
hear you. NZEdge, here’s a cause for you.
Yours, David Baigent, Wels, Austria
baigent@eunet.at
(the ONLY kiwi living in this city - and that’s
official)
COPYWRITING & PHOTOGRAPHY, MELBOURNE, AUSTRALIA I was reading the NZ Herald online and found a
reference to your web site. When I read people's accounts and memories of
New Zealand it put a lump in my throat. Those of you who come from East
Auckland will know what I'm talking about when you have been away for a
while and that drive home from the airport that seems so long, then you
come along Bleakhouse Road in Howick and all of sudden you are at the top
of Macleans Road and the whole sweeping view of the peninsula and out over
the Hauraki Gulf just unfolds before you. It absolutely takes my breath
away and I wonder all over again how I ever could have left home. You
truly have to leave a place to appreciate the beauty in it and realise
just how much of your identity is formed by its culture and little
idiosyncrasies.
RADIO BROADCAST TRAINER, GOLD COAST, AUSTRALIA I know little of NZEDGE but as a Kiwi who left his
loved land in the dark days of too many upheavals I have come to miss my
homeland and look for any way I can of keeping in touch. In my career in
RNZ broadcasting I touched New Zealand's very soul and drew ever closer to
my Maori cousins and their culture with whom I grew up in Mangere. I now
consider myself a Pakeha on the outside but Maori inside. We have a strong
community here in Brisbane and I am working to make it stronger and more
relevant in whatever way I can but particularly through radio. New
Zealanders need recognition for their efforts overseas and so many give
their all for Aotearoa even though they seldom see it.
COMPANY DIRECTOR, AUCKLAND Returned to NZ after 17 years in Canada. Children
beware! the school playground in NZ is a violent place. School sports are
very physical and individual sports people have a difficult time finding
support. Kiwi children are cruel to those with accents and not at all
welcoming unlike their overseas counterparts. Non travelling Kiwis are
very insular and not open to new ideas. NZ Newspapers and media are
terrible, inaccurate and lack overseas news. The kiwi culture of bad
service makes it very easy for an immigrant to succeed in business - there
is no competition.
Salaries are appalling therefore returning
kiwis should start a business with the ideas they have learned overseas.
Child care is difficult and expensive so returning women find it
challenging to focus on careers with the lack of support systems despite
being encouraged to succeed here. The outdoor life is unsurpassed so we
are not leaving again. We travel overseas every year which confirms that
this is home. Business is booming and our lifestyle surpasses the one we
left behind. The kids were trying to lose their Canadian accents but
as adults find it useful to sound foreign and they no longer want to flee
NZ.
SALES, BRISBANE AUSTRALIA How easy to leave nz. how non-remorseful that
no romantic notions of such an advanced country come to mind. how
good it is not to have to digest to my children the illusions of
nz. Sadness is not even primary. The gorging non-phallactic
mongrel mob entrenching fear in citizens with their subhumane escapades
suckin from the weak, utilising legal solicitors in remote places with
just a phone call or bank deposit (suck his soul in), the education and
racial protocols hidden by a pretending and acknowledging society leave me
grateful. Grateful that other parts of the world have places and
education way outstanding for a family life.
CEO, AUCKLAND Love the site, love the country, and love what
you're doing. I've just taken a CEO role in New Zealand after 20 years
playing at the corporate edge in Australia, to transition a fine if
somewhat dowdy 83 yr old institution into an incubator of entrepreneurs of
grace and freedom. The world will be coming to Aotearoa to learn the arts
of leading wisely with grace that we might all live well.

MINISTRY OF FOREIGN AFFAIRS & TRADE, WELLINGTON I frequently recommend NZEdge.com to our staff
working in Embassies and High Commissions overseas. It such is an awesome
site - congratulations.
TEACHER AUCKLAND, NEW ZEALAND I wish I had known of this site earlier, while
living in London. I will def pass it on to mates still there. Big ups to
Ngati Ranana in London, who share a similar philosophy, and is made up of
Iwi from all over NZ and the world, talented, motivated, risk-takers.
Through groups like that and ideas like yours, the potential and
possibilities are unlimited. Good on ya.
RURAL/LIFESTYLE REAL ESTATE CONSULTANT, COROMANDEL
PENINSULA Nothing could be more awe inspiring than the job I
have got, after travelling around the globe, I now have the opportunity to
share my home, one of the most beautiful places on earth with others, so
we may all experience our own Turangawaewae (heart place).
ACTOR/TVC PRODUCER, AUCKLAND Back home under the Southern Cross after 17 years
overseas. I often sought out the night sky and that constellation for an
emotional connection with home.
CARER/CLEANER MELBOURNE, AUSTRALIA Just found the Edge. What a good idea. Always knew
there was something good about us all out there on the edge of it all. My
family background is one of inventions, aircraft and buildings among other
things. New Zealand seems to have spawned a lot of inventive types. There’s
a good story to share sometime.
GRAPHICS/DESIGN/PLANNING, MONTCLAIR, NEW JERSEY, USA In my up-to-now 10 minute initial visit, one of the
more interesting sites for exploration I've seen. Do a lot of surfing by
the by. Will have more time when not at work. Thanks for being at the edge
and grounded at the same time.
DIRECTOR, AUSTIN, USA Read about this site on line in the NZ Herald.
Wonderful site. Love to contribute if possible. Lived in the USA
1981-1997, back to NZ for 7 years raising our boys now back in Austin
2004. I want to keep our boys connected to New Zealand.
EVENTS ASSISTANT, SYDNEY I first discovered your site when was living in
Wellington and found it an inspiration then. Having recently moved to
Sydney have found myself craving some NZ inspiration and remembered your
site. Look forward to some updates and checking in from time to time.
LOCOMOTIVE ENGINEER SOUTH HEDLAND, AUSTRALIA The iron ore industry here in Australia's northwest
employs many Kiwis and amongst them are many loco drivers who began their
driving days on the old NZR, it is a lifestyle here in the Pilbara, hot in
the summer, beautiful in the winter, been here off and on for 32 years!
Started with the NZR in Palmerston North in 1961!
ARTIST, MELBOURNE, AUSTRALIA I just got back from 10 fantastic days in Auckland
visiting friends and relatives and felt this incredible surge of optimism
in the community. Seemed to me New Zealand is very 'up' right now, the
local music is great, so many interesting designers and artists that are
supported by the community and appreciated for what they bring.....I had a
wonderful time and Rangitoto in its stately splendor always makes me feel
at home. I log onto this website whenever I feel homesick. Thanks.
CONSULTANT, SYDNEY, AUSTRALIA Kia ora Brother. Came across your news and website
absolutely by chance - (as if there is any such thing as chance in these
matters) - more I was guided to you by the Greater. Inspirational stuff -
I will continue to visit and keep in touch with the Whanau. HUGE blessings
to you and the family - you have never been (nor ever will be) forgotten.
Arohanui.
TITANIUM CARD EMBOSSER, BRIGHTON, UNITED KINGDOM Hi, I live in the UK in Brighton and have been in
the UK for the last 9 years but was born and breed in New Plymouth, New
Zealand. It is a great site, keep up the good work.
WRITER, ROCHELLE, ILLINOIS, UNITED STATES Great Site! Thanks for getting it up and running. I
miss home. It's funny, sometimes we don't realise what a rich culture NZ
has until we leave it behind. It is only now, far from home, that I begin
to understand what a strong identity I have as a NZ'er, and how deeply I
cling it. Thanks again
RETIRED, PARAPARAUMU, NEW ZEALAND As a "new" browser of your web-site, I am
most impressed - I feel you have a truly open approach to topics I have
scanned. Congratulations - we need more approaches like this to cement New
Zealand's mark on our world.
ACCOUNT DIRECTOR, CHESTER, UNITED KINGDOM Have just stumbled across this site and it looks
fascinating. Haven't had the chance to read through everything, but at
first glance it seems to be challenging, provocative, and very
interesting. I look forward to joining the NZEDGE community!
INFORMATION RISK MANAGEMENT, BMU This looks like an interesting web page, and I fully
support the idea of linking all the kiwis off island. It is important to
ensure kiwis are both in touch with home, and excelling internationally.
AUSTRALIA Hi. I wrote to Helen Clark asking her why NZ had
never honoured Nancy Wake, your most decorated female war hero and all I
got in return was a form letter explaining that your Prime minister gets a
lot of mail and it is impossible to answer it all etc. Australia awarded
Nancy the Companion of the Order of Australia which is our greatest
honour. Of course the French, British and even the Americans have honoured
her and recognized her efforts but NZ never has. Even though Nancy has
Maori blood they appear to have ignored her so I'm going to send their
unconcerned reply to the Sydney Morning Herald and making a story of
it. The great lady is 93 years old and is now quite frail and if she
passes on without having received due recognition a great opportunity
would have been lost for ever. Surely NZ has a national decoration that is
equal to our Order of Australia.
MARKET DEVELOPMENT (AGRICULTURE), SINGAPORE Hi NZ Edge. Just read the Heroes section and was
very impressed; didn't know we had so many NZ heroes (other than the
sporting ones). Looking forward to spending more time reading from your
site and receiving the email updates with new stories. Thanks for your
work so far in promoting New Zealand and New Zealanders.
MUSIC AND DRAMA TEACHER, MELBOURNE AUSTRALIA I think that this is an excellent informative site
for ex-patriots. I was brought up in New Zealand in Christchurch and
Wanganui and appreciate the news of my country of birth
DIRECTOR, AUSTIN TEXAS Read about this site on line in the NZ Herald.
Wonderful site. Love to contribute if possible. Lived in the USA
1981-1997, back to NZ for 7 years raising our boys now back in Austin
2004. I want to keep our boys connected to New Zealand. Thanks Mike Finch
DESIGNER, CHRISTCHURCH We have this odd fascination with being missed,
overlooked or falling off the edge of the world's collective
consciousness. But look at this: www.theworld.ae and follow the links
to the master plan some one is building a collection of islands in the
Dubai Harbour, as exclusive real estate. You can buy the South Island
(with Stewart Island thrown in) plot A1, or the North Island plot A13.
ARTIST MACHINIST, ADAMSTOWN MARYLAND i wear a bold face tattoo, designed by me, just
completed a week ago. i find that getting tattooed on the face is a
profound and awesome experience. exquisitely painful, too. with exception
of reinforced eyebrows, i find that there are almost no tattooed faces in
this part of the world. i respect the sacredness of the moko design. i
hope to sometime meet another with atrwork on the face. for fifty years i
thought about it/dreamed about too/for fifty years i coundn't do it/now it
has come true. wygelia@erols.com john shining bear/aho/uhuru
SCHOOL STUDENT, GOODNA, QUEENSLAND AUSTRLIA hey! im currently doing an assignment on the black
power and i decided to do one on them because well i cant really be aginst
them b'cos i do actually have family members involved in this typical gang
ive new they were in this gang b'cos ive been around them im not aginst
them but im aginst what they belive so i tkink your stories are fantastic
and cool any way gota go
HORTICULTRALIST, LEVIN Thanks for a great positive web site! Something
lacking in the primetime news. I’m looking into staring my own small
business over the next couple of years and having a read of your pages
every now and then gives me more wind. Cheers
FILM TECHNICIAN, AUCKLAND Kia ora All. Great site. I'm wanting to find any
Kiwis living in Thailand, Cambodia, Vietnam or surrounding regions. And if
possible to meet and interview for documentary. Hope to hear from anyone
soon. Kia ora. Na Gavin McLean wairuaora@xtra.co.nz
SUBCONTRACTOR, SYDNEY Hi just hooked to the net still feeling my way
around, came across your site if it's about nz or new zealanders it's got
to be good. Curious, more input later. Les Poa.
PERSONAL ASSISTANT, SYDNEY I currently live in Sydney Australia, I live in
Surrey Hills. I am a personal assistant with a property
company. I enjoy going out, going to the beach and having dinner
with friends. I have lived in London for 4 1/2yrs and have been here
for 6. I travelled through Canada, France, England, Bali, Ireland,
Turkey, Venezuela, Cambodia and Thailand.
GLASGOW, UNITED KINGDOM Hi all, been in Glasgow only 15 months and miss home
very much. Even though Scotland is a lot like back home and the people are
ever so friendly, my heart still yearns for good old New Zealand.

BUFFALO, NEW YORK, USA I am from the Northeastern portion of the USA and
have become aware of New Zealand via Peter Jackson's LOTR Trilogy. I
stumbled upon this site doing research for a Power Point project in
computer class, through a Google search. I would like to commend the
creators of this site, I found their rich illustrations of New Zealand
history, very poignant and interesting. I would love to one day visit
Wellington and surrounding areas. With my last bit of feedback, I would
like to thank New Zealand for one James William Robertson Napier, a young
Kiwi actor from such children’s shows as The Tribe (Techno Jay) and
Power Rangers Dino Thunder (Red Ranger Conner McKnight). Thanks ever so
much and I will definitely be back here again soon.
TEACHER, TAUPO, NEW ZEALAND I just got back from 2 years in London teaching. I
loved the travel, the adventures, motivated and inspirational people, and
I learnt more about being a New Zealander and being Maori in those 2
years, than I ever had. Last year I had a real urge to come home. When I
thought of New Zealand lots of beautiful images would come to mind, and
the idea of returning to the arms of the land and whanau was strong. When
I came back it was as I had hoped. It is truly beautiful, from the ancient
Pohutukawa on Orere beach, to the cow in the paddock in Waikato. But there
was a feeling of unease too. Race relations seemed strained to put it
mildly. No one wanted to talk about the foreshore or Maori politics. I
felt like I had missed something crucial by being in London, despite our
discussions, debates and awareness in the New Zealand community about
these issues, it was not the same as experiencing it. As a traveler you
tend to want to discuss what you saw and felt. I have found Kiwis to be
really bad listeners. They either cannot relate at all, so their face
closes and eyes glaze and you know they aren't taking anything in. Or,
they connect your experience to something they saw or did, and launch into
a big korero about their OE, as if to stop feeling like "I wish I was
still there/young/free". At times it has been an isolating feeling
returning. I look forward to our little reunions with ex-Londoners. We
often talk about how close we became with our friends in London, in such a
short time, sometimes closer than we are with old friends from school or
family members even. It is such a tight-knit community in London for
kiwis, and you miss that feeling of unity and identity back here. Hei aha,
it’s good to be home, for we should truly give thanks we are Kiwis.
Enough for now!! Kia Ora, Janie.
PUBLISHER, POINT ARENA, USA Our family of five (myself, my husband, and our
three teen and pre-teen sons) is actively planning a move from Northern
California to New Zealand in 2005. We are self-employed magazine
publishers (world market) so no need to stress on "can we get a
job" but am surprised how little NZ (with the exception of much of
your excellent site) seems to understand its strengths.
Want crime? Drugs? Gangs? Even our tiny (300 people)
enclave in coastal California three hours from the nearest mall now has
rules that our kids can't wear certain colors of clothes to school for
fear of violence. Want unaffordable housing? Homes in every place in
California worth living are massively over-inflated to the point that I
believe a serious real estate crash is only a matter of time. And if you
think having Helen Clark for PM is rough, try having a complete raving
lunatic like G.W. Bush as President.
Yes, NZ tax rates are high on the middle class; but
they are no higher than what I pay in California. I find the complaints
about the high cost of schooling in NZ ironic. Kids graduate $10,000 in
debt and can pay back as a percentage of income? Here, anyone in the
middle class can expect to spend $20-30,000 a year *US* and graduate
$40,000 in debt or more. I have friends in the 50's who are still paying
off college debt, even with *good* jobs and still can't afford to buy a
house.
And to the person who complained that NZ media
concentrates on the mundane instead of world news, believe me, it will be
a genuine relief from the "all war, all the time" that we get
here, punctuated by occasional multi-fruited terrorism up-and-downgrades.
Perhaps I'm a pie-in-the-sky Yank, but I can't
*wait* to become a Kiwi. NZ to us looks a lot like the land of milk and
honey.
COUNCIL WORKER & WAITRESS, MACKAY, AUSTRALIA Hi, our family wants to move to New Zealand, my
husband is home sick, & after 8 years in Australia, is ready to
return. I love New Zealand and I am sick of the heat and dust of this
country, so I’m ready to go also. However all we have heard is bad
reports; wages are low, education is terrible, houses twice the price,
food very expensive. Are there any Aussies out there that can tell us how
they are getting on in New Zealand???
RAW MATERIAL IMPORT MANAGER, MILWAUKEE, USA Just found your site connecting from
oldfriends.co.nz. Interested to find more about your site and is it
possible to make contact with any other New Zealanders living in the USA?
Have lived here now for 15 years with my kiwi wife and children very
closely marketing and procuring New Zealand beef.
RECRUITMENT CONSULTANT, LONDON, UNITED KINGDOM I am a New Zealander living in London, with four
months left until my visa runs out and plan to head home. I am really
looking forward to coming home but also aware of the huge adjustment
period, which will be hard with most of my friends still in the UK. Being
overseas has really broadened my horizons, both personally and
professionally after being stuck in a bit of a rut in New Zealand. It's a
bit daunting to think about, but look forward to the challenge ahead for a
country I am so very proud to be from.
HAMILTON, NEW ZEALAND Just read the following passage on Kevin Roberts
rugby postcard."From Cardiff on Sunday Jimmy and I left a
little bedraggled and worse for wear for Heathrow for a three-day stint in
Sao Paolo and Rio de Janeiro. Whilst rugby, of course, is very important
in neighbouring Argentina (who were flying high after their fourth
successive victory over France) no one in Brazil has any interest in the
game. They are devotees of soccer." I suspect Kevin didn’t find Sao
Paulo's touch of New Zealand. Sao Paulo has South America's only Kiwi
style bar with a huge screen for watching rugby games on. Check out
www.kiaora.com.br to read a little more about Brazil’s little piece of
Aotearoa.
MINERAL CONSULTANT (NON-METALLICS), SYDNEY,
AUSTRALIA Good to see the NZ Edge site. Interesting to read
details of Edmund Hillary, etc. Although I moved to Australia in 1980, I
still feel very much a Kiwi at heart and am always pleased to see the All
Blacks, etc, doing well on the world stage.
CALGARY, CANADA Here are several others that you can look at adding
to the Heroes list. Sir William Hamilton invented the jet boat engine in
the 1950s to get upstream in shallow waters. In 1956, Timaru's Colin
Murdoch wanted an easier way to vaccinate his farm animals, so he invented
the disposable syringe. Wellington's Robert Dickie introduced the stamp
vending machine to the world, and Hamilton's Bill Gallagher invented the
electric fence.
STUDENT, SYDNEY I am doing a school assignment on New Zealand and
this website has been good for my project but you should add the
traditional foods, dress and stuff like that.
SAN MIGUEL DE ALLENDE, MEXICO I was born and grew up in Fielding near Palmerston
North. My family still lives there and I built a website for my sister who
has a hair salon there http://www.thedgehair.com. After I left New Zealand
I just seemed to keep going and now I am fortunate enough to live in San
Miguel. It is a 14ht centaury village in the mountains 4 hours drive from
Mexico City; it is an historical site and so very little has changed for
hundreds of years. Here are some photographs
http://www.sanmiguelnow.com/church/church.htm. I love your web-site it is
really nice, your pictures really got me to reminiscing - thank you so
much! Please include me in your mailing list...Robin
PROFESSIONAL ARTISTS, CHRISTCHURCH Fulltime artists living in the best country in the
world...with 18 galleries in NZ and 2 in Australia representing us..this
gives us the excuse to travel and tell people about our artwork.. NYC is
the next stop...check out www.nakedart.co.nz for NakedArt - sculptures
from live models...
LIFE COACH, ZURICH, SWITZERLAND I am life-coach, and specialize in coaching people
to live in the now, but at the same time to reach for the stars. Although
I'm based in Switzerland, my coaching practice is global. This means that
I'm available for face-to-face coaching in the Zurich, Luzern and Zug
areas, but most of my coaching is done over the phone, working with
clients in many different parts of the world. Much of my work involves
working with expatriate women who are having difficulty coping with the
realities of living in a foreign country. My mission: To help people to
live full happy lives where ever they are in the world.
INVESTMENT REPRESENTATIVE, MONARCH BEACH, CALIFORNIA
RIVIERA, USA Born Gore; Lincoln; Lands & Survey, Canterbury;
Reid Farmers, Otago; 25yr overseas in rural development & humanitarian
relief aid, Asia, Africa, Europe. Now investment rep in California.
Wonderful kiwi wife, Pamela - Exec Dir of assisted living community &
2 daughters, Rachel - human resource specialist & Vanessa – teacher
MAC-FIELDS, SYDNEY, AUSTRALIA Another important man, Jim Richards: Australian
sports car champion for 8 or so years, Bathurst winner about 8 times, nick
name 'gentleman Jim' on and off the track. He is in his 60's now and is
still champion in several classes. Kevin Gormley: Aussie speed way
champion in the 60's /70's for a number of years (his first Kiwi speed car
has been restored and is in a museum around Auckland I believe). There are
a number of very successful motor racing Kiwis with Greg Murphy, Steven
Richards in the young up and coming list. They also say that Jim Richards
is a master at wining a race in the slowest possible time! He also has a
marvelous ability to change types or classes of car and still beat them
all each time. Some of the Maori legends may be a very interesting
addition such as the tale of why the Kiwi doesn't fly and why the ocean at
Cape Reinga "boils" for as far as you can see! And Hone Heke's
feats of destruction at Paihia? [cutting down a guarded pommy flag
pole!].I think that "cheese spread" was invented at the Waimana
cheese factory too. AAAAAHHHHHH the luxuries of food so fresh and diverse
found nowhere else!!! Wool; the envy of the entire world. Chinese
gooseberries:- the Kiwi version of Eve's apple!! Kauri trees and their gum
[carved]. It might just be a rumor, but Kiwis are the best at everything!!

RAF, OXFORDSHIRE, UK I am planning to leave the RAF and return to NZ in
two years time. Leaving the forces is difficult for most, but I’m
going for the double-whammy of returning to NZ as well. I know it
won’t be easy and that I will often question whether I’m doing the
right thing. But, if I don’t try it, I shall never know if it was
right, shall I?
What have been your motivations/reasons for
returning to New Zealand?
Basically I want to return because it is my home and
it is where most of my immediate family and friends are (having made a
concerted effort over the years to keep in touch and visit them, each and
every time I go back on holiday).
Also, though I will have been away for over 15 years
and I was born in the UK (to British parents), I grew up in NZ from the
age of seven and that influence has been very strong. It formed my
identity.
I have to admit, though, that there have been times
when I’ve felt very confused. In England I am English, but with a
Kiwi accent; in NZ I’m a Kiwi with a British accent. My sister
even once told me I sounded like one of the Spice Girls! Please God,
no!!!
And then there are the times when people gleefully
ask who I’m gonna be cheering for when a rugby match looms: the Brits or
the Kiwis? Well, in the end I always have to say “Both!”
The team that plays the best is the one that
deserves to win, but surely the one that loses, on the day, deserves some
support and encouragement too?!
What are the things that get you going and the
things that get you down? Getting me going: Thinking of having that
wonderful scenery and weather and food and wine on my doorstep once again!
Getting me down: Thinking of how difficult it might
be to find a decent job! Tho’ I have to say that as long as I can
afford to eat and switch on the lights, I don’t really care what I end
up doing, because I’ll be home!
Is the song of cicadas, squinting at the sheer blue
sky and smell of snapper on the barbie enough? No, it probably isn’t
enough, my friends and family are very important too. But hell, I am
sure looking forward to those things too! Plus don’t forget the
sounds of the myhnas too…I really miss them, for some reason.
Have you found your memories of paradise in the
South Seas to be more myth than magic? I’ll let you know, but on the
times that I have returned (roughly every two years) I would say I have
seen both good and bad things.
I try not to see everything through rose-coloured
specs and I advise the same approach to those who rave on about how they’d
emigrate to NZ or Aus’ (or wherever, as long as it’s not the UK) at
the drop of a hat!
While I love NZ and it means a lot to me, it isn’t
‘paradise on earth’ and wherever we are on this planet most of us are
faced with the same realities. We have to have a place to live and a
job, we still have to pay tax and sort out the MOT and insurance for the
car, the house will still need work doing on it and we will still worry
about our health and that of our loved ones. That’s life.
Have you been welcomed back with open arms or have
people struggled to understand where you're coming from? Once again, I’ll
let you know. But the times that I’ve been back I’ve been
welcomed. Though I have to say that I’ve had to be the one to make
the effort to contact them and go and visit, fitting in with their
routine.
The thing is that people lead busy lives and we can’t
expect that, just because we swan back into their lives, they’ll drop
everything for us. Yes, they’ll be happy to see us but, as with
all things, sooner or later the novelty is gonna wear off.
As for people struggling to understand where I’m
coming from, I’ve always found my friends to be very supportive.
Mind you, I’ve always tried to remain modest and play-down my exploits a
little (nobody likes having their nose rubbed in it, do they?).
And I make a point of showing how much I’m
interested in their lives and kids, and what they’re achieving, because
obviously that is what matters most to them. And, quite frankly, I
am very interested anyway…because it is a different existence from mine,
it fascinates me and I admire the fact that they are successful in their
careers, and as parents and wives/husbands.
Are you confident or anxious about finding work as
interesting or challenging as you have had overseas? Well, I’m the sort
of person that can find any new job challenging and/or interesting…at
least until I’ve got it sussed…and then maybe my attention
wanders. But then I’ve always been like that and it would be the
same wherever I was in the world! For me it’s not about the work,
it’s about the potential lifestyle.
What are the sounds, sights, tastes and moments that
move you?
Far too many of them to list and I’ve already read
many of the same sentiments, expressed very eloquently, on this
site.
All I will say, though, is that I’m very familiar
with the “huge lump in the throat” feeling. At every commonplace
sight, at every vista, at every takeoff and landing, at every hug hello
and hug farewell…it hardly ever leaves me and, when I return to the UK,
my heart is heavy with the knowledge of what I’ve left behind me…yet
again! dee_perdix@yahoo.co.uk


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We welcome new friends to
the New Zealand Edge who have registered these past few months from around the world:
Accra, Ghana
Adamstown, Maryland
Adelaide, Australia
Atlanta, Georgia
Austin, Texas
Bangkok, Thailand
Basel, Switzerland
Beaumont, UK
Berlin, Germany
Bern, Switzerland
Bogor, India
Bogota, Colombia
Boulder, Colorado
Brighton, UK
Brisbane, Australia
Bristol, UK
Buffalo, New York
Bundaberg, Australia
Burlington, Vermont
Calgary, Canada
Canberra, Australia
Canterbury, UK
Capetown, South Africa
Carroll, New Hampshire
Changzhou, China
Chester, UK
Clearwater, Florida
Corinth, Cermont
Cork, Ireland
Covington, Kentucky
Dallas, Texas
Dandenong, Australia
Darwin, Australia
Decatur, Georgia
Dunning, Nebraska
Eastsound, Washington
El Paso, Texas
Epsom, UK
Eugene, Oregon
Flint, Michigan
Frederick, Maryland
Fulbourn, Cambridge UK
Geneva, Switzerland
Georgetown, Australia
Glasgow, UK
Gold Coast, Australia
Goodna, Australia
Guildford, UK
The Hague, Netherlands
Hong Kong, China
Horley, UK
Huntersville, North Carolina
Jerusalem, Israel
Kalgoorlie, Australia
Kamloops, Canada
Kearney, Ontario Canada
Kiev, Ukraine
Kirkcaldy, UK
Logan City, Australia
London, UK
Luton, UK
Mackay, Australia
Macquarie, Australia
Makiti City, Philippines
Maleny, Australia
Melbourne, Australia
Melbourne, Florida
Mendoza, Argentina
Miami, Florida
Milwaukee, Wisconsin
Monarch Beach, California
Montclair, New Jersey
Mumbai, India
Mt Prospect, Illinois
Nepal
Newcastle, Australia
New York, New York
Norristown, Pennsylvania
Nipomo, California
Ottawa, Canada
Oxfordshire, UK
Paget, Belguim
Paterson, New Jersey
Perth, Australia
Peterborough, California
Philadelphia, Pennsylvania
Placerville, California
Point Arena, California
Poitiers, France
Port Morseby, Papua New Guinea
Portland, Oregon
Portsmouth, New Hampshire
Redcliffe, Australia
Redwood, Australia
Rizal, Philippines
Rochelle, Illinois
Ruiselede, Belguim
Salernes, France
San Diego, California
San Francisco, California
San Miguel de Allende, Mexico
Sandefjord, Norway
Santa Ana, California
Seaford, Australia
Seattle, Washington
Shanghai, China
Singapore
Sioux Falls, South Dakota
Spokane, Washington
Springs, South Africa
South Boston, Virginia
South Headland, Australia
Summerside, California
Surprise, Arizona
Surrey, Canada
Tallahasse, Florida
Tasmania, Australia
Tokyo, Japan
Torrance, California
Uxbridge, Ontario, Canada
Vancouver, Canada
Virginia Water, UK
Warwick, UK
Washington, DC
Wels, Austria
Worcester, Massachusetts
Zurich, Switzerland
And from The Edge:
Auckland
Balclutha
Christchurch
Coromandel
Dunedin
Foxton
Gisborne
Hamilton
Hastings
Havelock North
Inglewood
Invercargill
Kaka Point
Levin
Mongonui
Ngaruawahia
North Shore City
Oneroa
Opotiki
Paeroa
Palmerston North
Paraparaumu
Queenstown
Rotorua
Russell
Tahere
Taihape
Taupo
Tauranga
Timaru
Waikanae
Wellington
Whakatane
MAILING CENTRE, AUSTRALIA
Kia ora, I’m always interested in anything to do with Aotearoa, Land of
the long white cloud. My beautiful home land and what our people are doing at
home and abroad.
EDUCATION MANAGER, HASTINGS
Excellent site, thought provoking, good discussion of issues and ideas -
nga mihi
TECH, CANBERRA
Hi to my Triple Star, will see you again soon.
COMMUNITY GROUP LEADER CLEARWATER, UNITED STATES
Since moving to the States am missing the sound of Kiwi voices. Great site.
ADVERTISING - CREATIVE SERVICES, UNITED KINGDOM
I'd like to hear more please..... Am curious as am currently trying to
emigrate to New Zealand.
NOT SURE - AM LOOKING, CANTON OHIO, UNITED STATES
Great Site. I hope fellow Kiwis in the US have words of wisdom for me.
ANALYST, NEW YORK
All good! Thanks, Dame.
MARKETER, NEW ZEALAND
Positivity coupled with action - inspiring to see. Nice work.
INTERNET CONSULTANT, ADELAIDE, AUSTRALIA
A wonderful idea and a fantastic site.
SAN DIEGO, UNITED STATES
Great to have found you!
BOOKKEEPER MELBOURNE, AUSTRALIA
LUVIN IT.
ADVERTISING, KIEV, UKRAINE
Brought here by saatchikevin.com - will stay here as much as possible.
SHOP ATTENDANT, GOLD COAST
From what I’ve seen of this site so far it’s tops, good work guys, keep
it up.
RETIRED, COROMANDEL, NEW ZEALAND
Have no comments at the moment, looking for information about new flag
proposals and options so far suggested.
DRIVER, SEAFORD AUSTRALIA
Going to check things out. Thanks for the opportunity.
STUDENT-ATHLETE, BEAUMONT, UNITED KINGDOM
Love your site guys, you are marketing NZ exactly how I reckon it should
be. I'm a Hamiltonian on an athletic scholarship to Lamar University in Texas.
WRITER, SYDNEY
Great site, congratulations
SINGING TEACHER, MALENY, AUSTRALIA
Just discovered this site thru www.oldfriends.co.nz. Looking forward to
belonging to this community!!
CHEF, UNITED STATES
Kiwis are becoming more known as people from New Zealand rather than the
"Fruit" in the USA. Love the site.
SCHOOL STUDENT, HAMILTON
I think that Aotearoa is an Ataahua Country to live in...
IT MARKETING AND SALES, DALLAS, TEXAS, USA
How delightful to have a way to "check in". Although I have been
gone since 85... I still feel and bleed my Kiwi heritage... I miss New Zealand
terribly!
ROAD SWEEPER, HARLOW UK
Hello do you have any photos of Maori tattoos ,this is for my son’s home
work?
SALES/MARKETING BRISBANE, AUSTRALIA
I look forward to being a part of NZEdge, thank you.
STATE MANAGER – SALES, BRISBANE AUSTRALIA
What a great idea. While we are only a few hours by plane, milliseconds by
phone/email from our families, we still miss the day to day contact.
TEACHER, SANDEFJORD NORWAY
Really enjoy fossicking around your site.
ENGLISH TEACHER, POITIERS, FRANCE
I love this site. You give plenty of precious information. Thanks.
YESHIVA STUDENT/SEMINARY, JERUSALEM, ISRAEL
Great photos on the site!! Makes me Homesick. Shalom Chaverim (Peace my
Friends).
FINE ART AND VISUAL CULTURE STUDENT, BRISTOL, UK
Thank goodness for this website! Helps me feel less isolated as a Kiwi on
the other side of the globe.
WRITER, SYDNEY, AUSTRALIA
Great site, congratulations.
RETIRED, GOLD COAST, AUSTRALIA
Love to contact Kiwis and friends.
DERMATOLOGIST, FULBOURN, CAMBRIDGE, UNITED KINGDOM
Fantastic way to communicate with the NZ diaspora. Keep it up.
COMPANY DIRECTOR, AUCKLAND
Fantastic! NZEDGE is a real asset to our country, thanks!
STOREMAN, MELBOURNE
Very impressed.
FASHION RETALIER/MARKETER. HONG KONG
I definitely have a local heart but a global soul. Love it!!! Thank you.
TRUCK DRIVER, REDCLIFFE, AUSTRALIA
Gidday, great site,
SALESMAN, SIOUX FALLS, SOUTH DAKOTA, USA
I think that this is a great site, makes me wonder why I have not returned
home.
FASHION RETAILER/MARKETER, HONG KONG
I definitely have a local heart but a global soul. Love it!!! Thank you.
STOREMAN, MELBOURNE, AUSTRALIA
Very impressed.
SELF EMPLOYED, PERTH
Look forward to hearing from you shortly.
TEAM LEADER, AUCKLAND
Inspirational Site...Just awesome
STUDENT, BEIJING
I think this is a great place because it shows that New Zealand does have
great people and it shows this to the world.
PRODUCT ENGINEER, HUNTERSVILLE, NORTH CAROLINA, USA
Another Proud Kiwi flying the NZ flag overseas - Kia Kaha.
LONDON
Just discovered your site. Really interesting for a Kiwi of 14 years
standing.
SEMI RETIRED, VICTORIA, AUSTRALIA
Thanks for the opportunity to be on this site, I get a lot of enjoyment
from www.oldfriends.co.nz, keep up the good work.
TEAM LEADER CS ONLINE SHOPPING, LONDON
Really well set out website, everything is easy to access.
And it's nice for us to have a bit more kiwi info than the usual
websites.....
CUSTOMER SERVICE, SYDNEY
Being able to order NZ food - heaven on earth!!!!
PRODUCT ENGINEER, HUNTERSVILLE, NORTH CAROLINA, USAAnother proud Kiwi flying the NZ flag overseas - Kia Kaha.
PR ADVISER, AUCKLAND
This is a great site that just keeps getting better and better. I used to
be registered when I lived in London and now I'm home and settled again it’s
great to be part of the NZEDGE whanau again.
SALERNES FRANCE
I've only briefly looked at your site last night but the idea of it looks
good. Some of its content is what I've often wondered about, so it's good to
see that you have put the site together.
INFORMATION SPECIALIST, BERN SWITZERLAND
A great site! Interesting and stimulating. Your language is often a bit
puzzling, though! Have to stop and think what you mean in the
razzle-dazzle. Graham
BURLINGTON, USA
I have only just found 'The Edge' after living in the States for nearly
five years… It's great! I am very homesick, haven't been home in nearly five
years. Thanks
DERMATOLOGIST, FULBOURN, CAMBRIDGE, UK
Fantastic way to communicate with the NZ diaspora. Keep it up.
PUBLISHER, SINGAPORE
During the tough times, I always come to nzedge to get that little piece of
inspiration from all those great fellow Kiwis all around the world to keep me
going. Thank you!
SENIOR MANAGER, INFORMATION RISK MANAGEMENT, BELGUIM
This looks like an interesting web page, and I fully support the idea of
linking all the kiwis off island. It is important to ensure kiwis are both in
touch with home, and excelling internationally.
BUSINESS DIRECTOR, AUCKLAND
I wish more people raved about this country like you do. I am a Pom
and moved here 12 years ago and I cannot say enough about it. I love
this country and have more loyalty to here than I ever had in the UK.
Thumbs up guys keep it going! Craig
SAFETY EQUIPMENT MANUFACTURING, SOUTH BOSTON, VIRGINIA, USA
Great way to connect with Kiwis, I rarely come across expats though I did
meet Bruce and Gail Farr recently.
PUBLICATIONS OFFICER AT DESIGN FIRM, LONDON, UNITED KINGDOM
Great site. I'm not sure if adding politicians to the heroes list would be
too decisive but Michael Joseph Savage would be a great New Zealander to put
on the list. Cheers.

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